I was recently playing pickleball with a friend who is far better than I am at the game and when I’d hit a really good shot she’d holler, “feast on that one Sandy!” What she meant was not to pat myself on the back, but rather to savor the feel of the shot, replay the way it felt when the ball left my paddle, the sound it made, the effortlessness of it. So, I actually started to take a moment when I hit an exemplary shot (though they were rare) and recreate it in my head, my body, in my self-talk. I’d even start telling myself “Hey, if you got that almost impossible ball and returned a great shot once, you can do it again! And guess what? I did. I started hitting more and more good shots!
Taking that to our riding lives, when you execute a great stop or turn on the fence or have a higher scoring run than usual, take the moment to “feast” on it. It’s been proven that it takes 30-60 seconds of savoring a moment to create a pathway that can be followed internally to duplicate that more and more often, in other words to make it “stick”.
Likewise, if we mess something up, “Forget about it”. We don’t want to deepen that moment into a rut in our subconscious by ruminating on it and having that be what “sticks”. It’s fine to be honest with ourselves though, if we understand what didn’t go well and replace it with what we’ll do better next time. That’s what the great tennis players do when they miss a shot. You’ll see them swing their racket a time or two like they should have to “replace” the error with the correct stroke. If we dwell on the error, we just make it stronger in our subconscious rather than making the desired motion get more firmly entrenched. So, forget about those errors or better yet replace them and feast on those good ones for a minute to make them stick!
In my last article I talked about letting your horse help you decide which event he’s most suited for, and now I want to share the factors I believe are most important when selecting a trainer (if you don’t plan to do the training yourself).
1. Shared Values The most important consideration for me is ensuring that my values align with those of the trainer. If I value honesty and open communication, I need a trainer who returns calls promptly and provides honest evaluations of my horse’s ability (or lack thereof). If our values don’t match, I’d likely become frustrated trying to track my horse’s progress. Similarly, if I prefer a high-standard facility where the horses and grounds could pass a military inspection, I wouldn’t be happy with a trainer whose facilities leave my horse standing in the mud during winter.
2. Training Methods Next, I consider whether I appreciate the trainer’s methods. Are they sensitive to each horse’s individuality, or do they follow a cookie-cutter approach? Is it a rigid “my way or the highway” attitude, or does the trainer offer flexibility to accommodate different horses and clients?
3. Proven Track Record and Horse Care It’s also essential that the trainer has a proven track record in both training and showing for the event my horse seems naturally inclined toward. Even better is if they have a proactive program for maintaining their horses’ soundness. Do they take horses for regular soundness checks, nip potential issues in the bud, and ensure proper deworming and vaccination?
4. Facility and Staff Qualifications I always check if the facility is safe and if the staff are qualified. A well-maintained environment with knowledgeable support makes a significant difference in the training experience.
5. Geographical Location Finally, consider the trainer’s location. How often do you plan to visit your horse or observe its progress? If you’re a very hands-on owner, sending your horse to a trainer in a different state might not be ideal.
You might not get every box checked, but it’s important to know what matters most to you. Much like choosing a life partner, it helps to discuss your expectations openly so that everyone is on the same page.
I’d love to hear what other factors you consider important when choosing a trainer!
Believe it or not, spring is coming soon and if you have 2-year-olds, you might have to start deciding what route to take with them. How do you decide whether you should go cutting, cow horse or reining with them? It’s really important that the horse has the aptitude and physical ability to do the event that you want them to do, so sometimes it’s best to let them make the choice. Young horses usually show interest in cattle very early on if they want to cut or be a cow horse, but they can fool you and not get really interested in cattle until later. Caylee Wilson just wrote a really good article for the NRCHA news called “Aptitude Test”, and I’d like to quote him in a few places regarding this.
He said, “If you have a horse that’s a good, balanced mover, is cowy, stays light on its front end while using its hocks, and has a very appealing overall look, it makes it easy to do the cow horse on that particular horse. On a horse that can’t do these things naturally or isn’t a very pretty mover, it’s going to take a lot of work to get it to do what the natural horse can do easily, and it’s probably never going to be comparable to the natural moving horse. If that less appealing mover is cowy, has good footwork and is quick to get to the ground on the stop, he might be make a great cutting horse prospect. A smart owner will let the horse’s strengths dictate the horse’s career rather than pushing the horse into a predetermined discipline.”
“Here’s Cayley on a good moving, well balanced horse with lots of eye appeal, and the IT factor!” photo credit Abigail Boatwright
Some things you want to observe while starting him are; does he travel out comfortably, naturally, balanced and want to use his hocks? Is he feely or is he a horse with low energy vs perhaps having a Ferrari’s engine under the hood? Does he have a fragile or fractious mindset vs steady and forgiving? How interested is he in a cow? Does he take guidance from his rider easily on a cow? If he’s athletic but doesn’t like to be interfered while working a cow, cutting might be a better option. The reined cow horse has to be willing to take direction from the rider. Sometimes hotter horses make good cutters if they have athletic ability and enough interest in cattle where it would take a lot more work to make that one a cow horse. If he’s pretty, well balanced and a good mover without much cow, reining may be the best option.
Caylee also addressed a horse’s build and body balance. He said, “smaller horses can end up being really good cow horses. It has more to do with strength and power and whether the horse is strong enough to run and stop and get around for the fence turn. Usually, a bigger horse will be stronger, but they can also be a bit slower across the turn, however, that small horse might have more heart and try and can outperform the bigger horse even though he’s not as strong. Heart is a desire from within the horse himself to perform. I’ve learned over time you can have a perfectly balanced, conformationally correct horse that just doesn’t move well or have the desire to want to do it. I’ve learned that horses can defy their confirmation and size. This is typically an exception and not the rule. That innate drive in the horse is the key element,” Wilson said. I completely agree with Cayley on that!
Kaylee also addressed bloodlines, saying, “it’s nice to have a pedigree with desired bloodlines. The horse must also be a little bit special to make a career as a cow horse. Does it have presence, its own charisma and will it be crowd pleasing?”
Those are all important considerations when evaluating your 2-year-olds potential.
Then, will you be sending it to a trainer? If so, which one? I’ll be covering that in my next article. Also, a full set of x-rays before you get started is important so you know what potential issues you might face and be sure they’re manageable.
There are some new rules for the Nrcha’s Box Drive class!
Most of these rules became official in 2024, but it seems not everyone is aware of them. And one is new for 2025. So, if you show in this class, be sure to read this article.
The Box Drive class is a fast-growing class allowing competitors who box to segue to the fence or just to have a new class to show in even if showing down the fence isn’t anything they ever aspire to do. It’s also a great way to rehab fence horses who have been shown competitively and need to rate down the fence performing a square stop at the end instead of getting the satisfaction of turning the cow!
As this class gains traction, more rules will be instituted, and I’ll keep you updated.
The newest rule that will take effect in 2025 states that if the contestant is not in working position that causes the cow to initiate at least one turn/change of direction, on the second boxing phase before crossing the timeline and terminating the work, a penalty of 5 points will be assessed.
The rules instituted in 2024 are:
1 point penalty “T” if on the first drive, there is failure to drive the cow past the middle marker
3 point penalty “D” for dangerous position of the horse in relation to the cow.
3 point penalty “W” for performing a fence turn (whether initiated by the horse or the rider).
3 point penalty “Z” for failure to drive the cow past the middle marker on the second drive before time expires. That one means that time expires and the end of work whistle is blown before the cow is driven past the middle marker on the second drive.
5 point penalty “X” for running the cow into the back fence with force (from 2023)
0 score penalty “Q” on the first drive down the fence, there is failure to drive the cow past the middle marker after 2 attempts.
If you’ve shown a horse more than a handful of times, you probably know your horse will start getting a bit anxious going in the pen, anticipating maneuvers and/or knows what the sound of cattle banging around at the far end of the arena means. Suddenly, when you walk into the arena, your horse turns into a creature that is unrecognizable.
When that happens, you need a schooling show or two and now’s a perfect time of year to do just that! When I had a training barn, I was always on the lookout for a local show or an AQHA show, because you can enter multiple classes, and they’re much less expensive than national association shows.
It’s important when you go to one to make it as close to the real thing as possible, meaning an announcer is on a PA, use your horse’s show bridle, wear your chaps up and be nervous (even if you’re not!). It’s surprising that they know when you’re there to school. I used to frequent these and if I was using it for schooling, I’d be all kicked back and wondered why my horses didn’t misbehave? Ha! That’s when I realized, I was part of the problem! So, don’t be too relaxed about it.
Next, have a plan. If your horse anticipates lead changes, plan to counter canter at least halfway around the new circle before you let them change. If they kick out, park them and back them up. Then go try it again. If they get chargey on the rundown, stop them and back them up to the end and start again. If they get scotchy on the rundown, plan to go all the way to the fence. I used to buy 2 slots back-to-back so I could take my time and really work on things.
Another time to use schooling shows is before an important first show of the year. That used to be the Stallion Stakes in March for the NRCHA and a lot of trainers used to wish they’d gone to a schooling show or two before that one!
So, if you want your horse to be his best when it counts, be sure to utilize these opportunities. In their absence, get a group together and go to each other’s arenas and whoop and holler for each other! You might just fool your horse the first time or two doing that!
